Monday, June 9, 2014

24 years ago...

Today is the 24th anniversary of my marriage to Carol.  This really was a great time in my life.  My dating relationship with Carol was a whirlwind.  As soon as I went out with Carol, I had made up my mind up that I was marrying her.  I proposed in 4 months and we were married 6 months later. (Carol HAD to have 6 months to plan the wedding!)  I would not recommend this for other people, but I think it worked out pretty well for us.

Last week, I saw a post a friend made about finding your soul mate.  The general gist is that your spouse is not your soul mate, only God can fulfill that role.  (If you feel so compelled click here for the article).  Although, I agree with this article, I think Carol was probably as close as it comes.  The writer says, "But if I hadn't met <my spouse>, I think my life would still be pretty good."  That certainly doesn't ring true for me.  I mean, would I even had a relationship with Christ if I hadn't met Carol?  I have so much to thank this woman for, probably no exaggeration to say everything.

This time of year, Facebook is full of wedding shots as people celebrate their June weddings.  So, to keep up with everyone, here is ours 24 years ago today:


That was a great day, probably the best in my life.  But, I sure am happier looking at pictures from the next day.  This is a shot I took when we first arrived at the hotel in Barbados.  Doesn't that smile make you happy? or, is it just me?




2 comments:

  1. What a lovely tribute to a lovely bride, wife, mom and friend. Praying for you and the kids as you continue to grieve your great loss and establish your "new normal." The Shepherd is with you. Karen LaBarr

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  2. Love this article. Loved your girl. Still praying for you and the kids.
    Jody

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